I specialize in working with creatives and am an expert on deep lasting natural joy and confidence.

When meeting you I LOVE to hear about WHY you do what you do. That bigger drive, that force that is undeniable, even if we try to ignore it. I guide you in seeing your inner truth, living more fully of what you are. Then I help you to see a way to create a legacy based upon your desires and dreams.

The journey of deep coaching is one I love.​ It allows us to go in-depth and create a powerful bond. All we do is entirely tailored to YOU, no standard formats, just carefully tailored sessions based on your goals. 

YOU decide where and how far to take this. Once decided we are a match, I bring my whole self to the table to support you in  maximizing positive impact and boosting your growth. 

Does this sound like you?

You are educated & intelligent.
You have dreams and a vision.
You are conscious about life. 
You are wish to make a difference. 

There is something about life you wish to find out and can't seem to pinpoint.

You are craving something deeper, a sense of freedom, fulfillment & authentic self-expression.

You are holding back from what you intuitively feel is actually possible and feel stuck or grabbed by overwhelm, pressure, chaos and managing life. You might have gained that high corporate position, set up your own business or traveled the world. Or you are about to start and wish to skip the de-tour and get straight to that heartfelt, enjoyable life you know is possible. 

1. It's a challenge to figure out what you want and stay focused on it.

With my  clients I encounter two types of people who have a lack of clarity, intention and direction in their life, projects and/or business.

The first one has a multitude of ideas and things they are skillful at and fail to connect all these facets of themselves in one coherent, inspiring, motivating and touching direction. This lack of intended focus causes shredded attention and ultimately stuckness. This means you work consistently, yet you are not truly moving forward, feeling like you move in circles. 

The second group is overtaken by a kind of brain fog that makes them forget what they are naturally skillful at and struggle  to create clarity and ideas about what the next level can be in their lives. Frankly, they don't consider themselves successful regardless of the many challenges they have already overcome in their lives. Insecurity and a lack of self worth are the driving force behind this brain fog.

2. You created and build what you decided upon, yet you feel empty and uninspired. 

The deeper problem is that you can never have enough of what you don't really want.

Being a creator doesn't necessarily mean feeling fulfilled. 

You might know the next upgrade you desire to create, yet wonder whats the purpose. No matter how successful you are or adventurous the next steps seem, there is this sense of exclusion. Feeling like you don't fit in one way or the other. This feeling is a returning pattern regardless of your level of success, the people you hang out with or the material wealth you have created. 

Lacking a truthful connection with the real heartfelt why, that why that fuels your whole life, is at the based of these returning patterns. It withholds us to experience all facets of life, in a state of exponential fulfillment. 

Are you ready?

Most people die with their music still inside them.
Not my clients.

Most people wish to be happy, have a good relationship, a nice job, two kids and a wife/husband who supports them. Oh and not to forget the finances to go on a holiday maybe twice a year and have some fun time with their friends. They wish to be comfortable.

If this sounds like you, you are in the wrong place!!

The thing is, I have a powerful and totally INCORRUPTIBLE believe you can live a life in freedom & greatness, a beautiful exponential life. I only see amazingly beautiful, strong and powerful people.

That is a life where you realize things that seem impossible and extremely far away right now.

Nobody ever said transformation, has to be slow and difficult. To be honest its basically very simple. To live an empowered & exponential life you have to be willing to focus on you own inner voice, do things differently and be open to the possibility that all you ever desired is closer than you think.

Life really can be open hearted, flowing, beautiful, creative, visionary & exponential. Magic & miracles are so much closer than you think.

What I actually do is show my clients how to see their world differently, to become the boss of their mind and focus on their heart. When someone sees the world differently, they show up differently, and they create results that looked impossible a moment before. That is a miracle.

This is the place to come when you are ready to really begin transforming your life. Our work together will be intense – deep, one-on-one coaching that uncovers your hidden blocks and gives you the tools you need to flow through them and succeed. It will be intense & rewarding.

My clients make an IMPACT in the world (or they are ready to). My clients know what it means to be at the top of their game, in at least one area of their life – whether they are a housewife or an entrepreneur, an athlete, a CEO, an artist or a coach. And my clients are ready to find out what it would take to reach the next level – or beyond. They are ready to experience true richness and prosperity in all areas of their life. Prosperity is about far more than just money.

If you work with me, you are already successful. BUT (and read this carefully) ...... 

Despite your success — actually, because of it — doing more of what you’re already doing is not going to lead to your next level of inspiration, freedom, joy, natural leadership, fulfillment and/or creation.


In fact, the very qualities that have brought you your current success are precisely what holds you back from even greater levels of unfolding your vision and life work.

Through my life & work, I have discovered that there is a set of qualities visionary people have that skyrocket them forward and also hold them back at the very same time.

You are intelligent and have a vision

The very power of your vision can be sabotaging your success as your aspirations are so big you feel overwhelmed inside, like you are slowly drowning on the inside with a semi-fake smile on the outside.

When so many options are available to you, the paradox of choice can mean your focus unconsciously ends up shattered all over the place. Giving you an overall experience of tiredness and a feeling this might not be for you after-all.

You don't need help

You are strong (regardless if you acknowledge this for yourself) and people are impressed by what you create. You are one of the highly successful people in your surroundings, somehow it all works. Your strength doesn't need any help and so you are missing out on your very own close and intimate support troopers.

You are vision focused

Having your focus, commitment and devotion firmly on the vision, mission and legacy allows you to take action immediately when you have an insight or idea.

At the same time you rarely slow down enough to notice the impact of your decisions and actions, as well as the repeating patterns that re-appear every single time. Unconsciously this holds you back from living more freely, curiously and unbound.

You experience exponential success

Many soulful creative people judge themselves for being ‘lazy’. Despite the appreciation of those around you, it often doesn’t feel like your work, life and connections have reached the full depth of your potential & capabilities.

A feeling you are the only one experiencing this and all you have created is not yet radiating the highest level of energy/power.  A feeling of confusion resides in the background 'am I missing out on something or does everybody else?'

You miss out on hearing the ‘truth’

Friends, family, co-workers all love you over the moon and back and love you to stay exactly as you are. The closer you connect to yourself, the more challenging it becomes to open up to the people around you and for them to speak their truth. Great visionary people often have few people in their world willing to say exactly what they need to hear the most.

You seek balance

The more success you have and the further along in life you get, the greater the pressure to keep up with the level of societal expectations. Work, relationships, friends, health etc. The barrier to focus on what really matters for YOU in life becomes 'unbearably' high, because each time it feels like the bar rises trying to juggle all components at the same time in search for a solid framework for balance.

You love the depth and broadness of life

You have a finely-tuned ability to sense what is happening around you and in the world. The tendency towards offering support and solving problems means you are energized by challenges.

You tend to avoid practical tasks — administration, organizing things, making decisions etc.— until they reach problem-level status. You struggle to gain clarity and focus on longer-term goals. Postponing completion creates a foggy and cloudy mind.

You have competing commitments

Your very drive for to make a difference in the world - to create 'success' according to what that embodies for you is motivated by deep commitments and values. When you are not making happen what you claim to be committed to, it is a clue that there is a stronger, competing commitment to which you are unknowingly committed.

'Living from your inner voice, is what I call freedom'.  

~ Tamara 

A simple fact ... waiting is not going to serve anybody. Life is finite, period.

You are not like everyone else.
You are devoted to creating your desires.”

Most people never discover what they are capable off.

Have no clue about the scope of impact they can actually make.

Many of us follow the beaten track of life without questioning it. Education, house, relationships, family & having children. Many of us wonder 'this can't be it' yet never do anything about it, they settle.

Only a few stand up, show up and speak up in order to find their heart, voice and fire.

You can work as hard as you wish and have all the right systems & work ethos in place, but if your mind is not committed, clear and free of blocks you will stay exactly where you are. No matter how hard you work.

My clients are the ones creating their vision & legacy, proving life can be exponentially beautiful and are destined to live a vision bigger than themselves, a life of service, create an impact for others, be a source of inspiration simply by fully embracing themselves and take inspired action with clear focus.

What does your gut tell you life will be like in ten years if you shift nothing? If you don't listen to that inner voice. Same everything: job, house, partner, friends, income. Ten years time—what will you be doing, what will life be like?

It is possible to be an exception?

It is possible to live life creatively, in flow, open, heartfelt, intuitive and limitless. We are capable of so much more than we give ourselves credit for. Command your mind & focus your vision.

When I meet someone interested in coaching I ask them about WHY they do what they do. That bigger drive, that force that is undeniable. The one vision that keeps coming back time after time, even if we ignore it.

I guide & mentor you to unlock an even greater vision and mission than ever before and then I help you to see a way to create a legacy based upon the flow of life, your gut instinct. Eliminating all mind blocks and programs & patterns running you at the background.

I take a stand for all my clients, they have all the power & answers within themselves to create that - sometimes overwhelming beautiful life in freedom, joy & vision.

High Performing Creatives

Who is a high performer? Anybody who has the intrinsic desire to move beyond where they are at now.  

What does it take to be a creative?
Essentially everyone is a creative yet we tell ourselves we aren't. Your life, relationships, business, art, health all of it are creations fueled by you.

A high-performer myself, I know there is always a better way.

I am relentlessly passionate in perfecting my craft and continue to expand and my art. I find it, I practice it, I embody it.  I lead from the inside out. I  research and explore more than any of my clients. I invest a huge amount of my time, money and energy—and I travel across the globe—as part of my relentless professional and personal development.

You will be expected to take serious and consistent action. A different way of thinking and full support while you transform your ideas into tangible results with the side effects of gaining confidence, vibrancy, joy and leadership, consistently and in record time.

"I increased my mental clarity and got my start up off the ground. I have worked with Tamara for 3 months now, and the experience has been inspiring and elevating to say the least. She has helped me increase my mental clarity, supported me to get my start up off the ground and has always pushed me to be my true self. Tamara believed in me always and it has truly been a wonderful journey, one I look forward to continue with our future collaboration!"

Amandine Ayala
Founder & CEO AMP Smoking

I’m an expert on deep lasting natural joy and confidence.

Over the last years I worked with hundreds of people to help them move past self-judgement, self-doubt, fear and insecurity (those voices in their head that hold them back).

My clients tell me they love, that I always belief in them and give them my full undivided attention. They love I always see their power and support them to truly be who they are, to stand up, speak up and show up for what they belief in. They appreciate me for not going with the storytelling of their mind. 

All of us require support in discovering our blind spots and deep one on one coaching is powerful because when we help someone see their world differently, their world transforms. This is what I do for my clients, I help you see your world differently and your world will transform. 

I have worked with clients who have achieved inspirational results, created passionate relationships and built businesses doing what they love.

My clients create powerful results. 

  • A female bodybuilding athlete I worked with went from ranking bottom half in b-level competitions to placing second at the Dutch Nationals final in within 90 days. 
  • A female client who dreamed of her own business went from terrified of judgement and hiding by playing video games on the couch to a vibrant shining powerful woman running her fresh new start up full and creating her own product line in 120 days. She now is full of energy and improved all the relationships around her. 
  • One of my clients is the CEO of 50+ employee company in Latin America who desired to spend more time with his family. Shifting positions he now spends his time doing what he loves most, sailing  with his family while also setting up a second business.  
  • A client who is the mother of 3 children doubled her revenue as a massage therapist and is now developing her own sensual flow methodology and creating workshops for feminine connection. 

"Did you ever wonder what you will be doing if you get out of your head and follow your inner voice and heart?"

~ Tamara 

One day journey

One full day intensive where we dive deep into finding and dissolving the challenges & patterns that are holding you back from creating results with a specific goal you have. Doing so we will create a new direction and perspective to move forward. Creating awareness around your next best step. You choose and decide which country, city and place we will meet, it will be a place that inspires you. Early morning till late night we will create a day full of excitement, power and transformation. 

Three months + journey

My clients and I work together for 3 months and up to 12 months and their life transforms exponentially. 

It will cost you more than money

My coaching is not for everyone. It requires courage, commitment & devotion.

Coaching is a 200% model.
It requires me to play at 100%.
And it requires you to play at 100% too.

Working together is an investment.

It's spending your time, your energy, your money, your focus, your commitment and your attention with the intention of achieving a future goal.

The clients who invest the most in their coaching are the ones who get the most value from their journey.

They are the ones who get committed. They are the ones who embrace the challenges ahead. They are the ones who take the risks, do the work and pick themselves up and start again after every setback.

When you say yes and making your payment to join me on the journey of upgrading your life, that will be just the first part of your investment...

Next comes your investment of time, energy, focus, commitment and attention towards what you really, really, REALLY want to create for your life and/or your business.

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